Why Are You Tripping? - Overcoming Offense

Overcoming Offense: A Path to Healing and Freedom

In Luke 7:17-23, we find a powerful narrative that speaks to the heart of human experience—dealing with offense. John the Baptist, despite his close relationship with Jesus, finds himself in prison, questioning if Jesus is truly the Messiah. This moment of doubt and confusion sets the stage for a deeper exploration of how offense can impact our lives and our faith.

Why Do We Get Offended?

Understanding Offense

Offense is more than just a fleeting feeling; it is an injury that takes place in the heart. The Greek word for "stumble" used in this passage can also mean "to take offense." Jesus highlights the importance of not stumbling or taking offense because of Him, indicating that offense can be a significant barrier in our spiritual journey.

The Root of Offense

John the Baptist's situation illustrates a common human experience: confusion and doubt when our circumstances don't align with our expectations. John knew Jesus was the Messiah, yet he found himself imprisoned, leading him to question everything. This confusion and unmet expectation can easily turn into offense, not just towards people but even towards God.

The Impact of Offense

Defensiveness

One of the first signs of offense is defensiveness. When we feel attacked or misunderstood, our natural reaction is to defend ourselves. This defensiveness often stems from an injury in our hearts, causing us to react rather than respond thoughtfully.

Resentment

Offense can also lead to resentment. When we harbor feelings of disappointment or betrayal, it can turn into bitterness. This bitterness can affect our relationships, including our relationship with God. John the Baptist's question, "Are you the one who is to come, or should we expect someone else?" reflects a deep-seated disappointment and confusion.

Withdrawal

Another common reaction to offense is withdrawal. When we feel hurt, our instinct might be to retreat and isolate ourselves. This withdrawal can create emotional and relational distance, making it harder to connect with others and with God.

How to Overcome Offense

Resist Offense

Ecclesiastes 7:21-22 advises us not to take to heart everything people say. It's essential to recognize that not every comment or action is a personal attack. By resisting the urge to internalize every slight, we can protect our hearts from unnecessary injury.

Overlook Offense

Proverbs 19:11 tells us that good sense makes one slow to anger, and it is to one's glory to overlook an offense. Overlooking an offense doesn't mean ignoring it but choosing not to let it control our emotions and actions. It’s about rising above the situation and not allowing it to dictate our behavior.

Cover Offense with Love

Proverbs 17:9 says, "Whoever covers an offense seeks love." Covering an offense with love means seeing the person through God's eyes and choosing to respond with grace and compassion. Love has the power to heal and restore relationships that have been damaged by offense.

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This week, challenge yourself to identify any offenses you may be harboring. Reflect on how these offenses have impacted your relationships and your spiritual journey. Ask God to help you resist, overlook, and cover these offenses with love.

Questions of reflection

Are there areas in your life where you feel defensive or resentful? What might be the root cause of these feelings?
Have you withdrawn from any relationships because of offense? How can you begin to bridge that gap?
How can you practice covering offenses with love in your daily interactions?

By addressing these questions and applying these principles, you can begin to experience the freedom and healing that comes from overcoming offense. Remember, with God, all things are possible, including the restoration of your heart and relationships.